Thursday, July 19, 2012

How She/He Acts, How We React


            “Today she told me she was busy and couldn’t talk to me, yet she was on facebook for over half an hour chatting.” I get that a lot from people and true to the word, it has happened to me a lot. A lot of my friends (ladies) do that to me and yeah we all hate it.
            A small tip for you guys out there, don’t do the same though sometimes you may want to let her know how it feels. They won’t get it. They’ll get mad and if you explain, they’ll be even mo hard that you paying her back for her mistakes. Do not let the smoke turn black.
            As much as we may hate it, let’s try to live with it, or rather talk to them not via the phone or any other medium. You need to see their reaction and judge ‘em right and she also needs to know how you are letting it out.
            The truth here is, it is much easier to talk to a friend rather than your lover. Ladies and guys, y’all can attest to this. I don’t know why. If the girl does it it’s okey, if a guy does it you are in the wrong. That’s for another day.
            I aint sure of what am saying but my name is Cupid. When my head is right, more will come. Feel free to cheap in. C ya.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

How To Know She's The One


            There’s one question men truly fear wrestling with, “Is she the one?” or rather, “How do I know she’s the one?” it’s kind of hard to know that but this here is another way of getting a glimpse to know how.
Ø  Friends And Family Think She Is
She gets along with your family and friends. If there’s a clue that she doesn’t mix well with your family or friends, she may not like them or they may not like her, she may be the wrong one. Don’t let her go just cuz they don’t like one another, if you are sure of it, keep your relationship.
If your family sees what you see in her, keep her, if not, you know what to do.
Ø  Aint Scared By The Thought Of Marrying Her
If throughout the period of dating and engagement you haven’t doubted or gotten scared of marrying her, she’s the one. You’ve certainly watched movies where last minute changes occur and you may fear that to happen. But if you’ve never had doubts or fear, be cool, she’s it.
Ø  Less Drama
There can never lack arguments in a relationship. But if there’s constant arguments in your relationship with no kind of trial to a solution, then you aint going nowhere.
So when you fight, listen to one another, apologize and try to solve it all. Keep the drama to its minimal and if she helps in keeping it down, you got her right.
Manage your conflicts well.
Ø  Best Friend
There’s so much to a relationship than merely physical attraction. Time will come when that will be no more and the chemistry gone. Only friendship can hold you together then. If she’s your best friend, then know she’s the right one for you.
Ø  You Don’t Wanna Change Anything About Her
If there’s something about your girlfriend that you’ll wish to change and it bothers you, forget about the relationship. But if you look at her and you never think of changing anything about her, then know she’s the one. But don’t be confused by crazy emotions.
Ø  You Trust Her
If you have never trusted ladies but this time you do with her, she’s the one. You don’t object her in any way and you know no matter what you do she’ll always be close, you got it, but do not treat her badly with that notion, you’ll be doomed.
Ø  It Feels Right
If you have absolutely no doubt about her and your guts tell you you’re doing the right thing, you just got yourself the one. Let everything be right about you

            Knowing she’s the one is definitely a great task and if these help you am glad. But do not break your relationship over me. Am happy in mine, so be happy in yours. All the best fellas. Love Ya.www.facebook.com/thefunnyjoy