Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Love, Relationship & Life: Campus Love: The crazy side

Love, Relationship & Life: Campus Love: The crazy side

Campus Love: The crazy side

Last semester I experienced something crazy between a couple in the university. Love is amazing, as I always say. Love is blind, as they always say. But how we relate to it really matters. In campus, most relationships are not that stable as they seem. Some of the parties involved may really not be into the relationship whereas their partners are deep to the roots into it. This couple lived together for the semester, another problem creator. The guy provided for the lady all through and you can guess he was also getting some. In short we can say, they were fine and happy with it all. Two weeks to the end of the semester, trouble started. Arguments and all. All this instituted by the guy. The guy would ask the girl to pay him all the money he had used to feed her for the whole semester. They quarrelled for long and before I could find out what happened next, they moved to a different location. Is it advisable to live with your lover while still in school? Many would love this but trouble is bound to arise. Probably this guy got tired of the girl and sought a way out. Staying together when you are still young is bound to create monotony in your lives thus the temptation to stray. Or rather move out of the relationship. Crazy as it seems, it happens. Are you ready to live with someone this early in life? Do you truly believe you are meant to be together for life? Do you truly believe you are on the right track? Love them wisely.

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

What more is worse? Dreadful night.

I'm sitting on my balcony reminiscing about the past. My life with my wife and kids. All the laughter that filled the house like the rays of the sun fill the earth upon a clear sky. As I am drawn to this illusion, my eyes fill with tears as I come to realise that no more of that laughter, sweet and melodious, will come my way again. It's all gone. It all happened a year ago after my wedding anniversary. We had just landed back from the Carribean Islands where we renewed our vows and just had fun with our two lovely dolls, Jacy and Stacy. We landed at the Jomo Kenyatta International Airport at around seven o'clock in the evening and headed straight home. Our househelp prepared a light meal for us before she left for her house. After dinner, Jacy and Stacy went to sleep immediately and my wife and I followed shortly after. As I got into bed, the phone rang. I picked it up and a hoarse cold voice asked for me. "Speaking," I answered. "Get ready for the night of your life!" the voice told me. "Wha..wha..what do you mean?" "Just get ready!" "But -" There was a loud bang on the door before I could finish my sentence. I heard the door crashing down and footsteps running up the stairs. The phone slid out of my hand and it crashed on the floor. My wife looked at me in consternation but there was no time to explain. I heard Jacy scream for me while Stacy called out to my wife. For a moment I was confused, then I remembered I had a gun. I reached for the drawer case beside my bed but before I got my gun out, my bedroom door crashed into the room. Three Goliaths of men stood before my wife and I with rifles. We were ordered to get down to the living room. In the living room, my twin daughters lay gagged on the floor. My wife and I were thrown to the ground and gagged. Then the ordeal started. I was forced to watch as my wife and twelve-year old daughters were mutilated. They were raped for more than an hour and I could see blood all over. I felt a strong pain at the back of my neck as darkness overcame my world. When I regained consciousness, the room was empty except for the bodies of my lovely ladies. I crawled to my two daughters but they were already cold with death. My wife was writhing in pain and she grew cold in my arms. My wife, an epitome of pulchritude, was no more. "God, why this? Why should this happen to me?" I cried out in pain. My world was shattered and was crumbling down before me. I felt as though the world was turning its back on me. I wished the ground could open up and swallow me alive. I pulled myself onto my feet and tried to reach for my phone but I collapsed. I woke up a week later in a hospital room. That was a year ago, now I live alone in peace. The memories of that fateful night still haunt me. A tear or two drops when I remember of it all. The laughter of my two little angels is what keeps me going day by day. That's the worst experience I'll ever have in my life. Peace.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Never Lose Hope

As a student, I have come to realize that most people tend to give up in life way too soon. Life is a game that we set the rules. So a question Iask myself is, why should I let go of something I created, just because it isn’t going as I expected? No matter how hard things seem to be, never lose hope. You may be down and under for longbut who knows, your success may just be around the corner. Die hard football fans can really succeed in life. Just look at them. Take a true Arsenal fan for instance, eight goals down by Manchester United and a disappointing start of a season, but he still sticks there. Same with a true Manchester United fan after a humiliating defeat by rivals Manchester City. My advice, be like a true football fan. Don’t lose hope. Stick there and it will all work out. When all hope is gone and you’re on the verge of giving up, a ray of light presents itself. So open your eyes wide and check yourself fly into prosperity.

Make Your Love, Why Wait.

If you are waiting for Mr. Right to come out of nowhere and be with you, or for a knight in shining armour to sweep you off your feet and you live happily ever after like in them fairy tales, think again and call out my name. I am Cupid. Many a time we wait for the perfect person to come meet you but my dear ladies, ’tis not thateasy. What I mean is, if you are waiting for perfection, you are sort of doomed. The ones that will appear perfect may possibly be just any goon in for fun and then he disappears. Watch your step. Try and make the one you meet perfect, that in result will perfect your love with the fairy tale effect of bliss all through to eternity. You have to risk it all if you really need to get to that destination that you are aiming at in love. Waiting for long will leave you with the stupid ones who are just there for the goods and ’tis over before you know it. Your knight in shinning armour turning out to be nothing but just a pervert in need of sexual redemption (i don’t even know what that means). Watch out you do not fall into the golddigger profile. Love is not about the money, you will fight for the money and end up with a golddigger guy. Guyz are not that holy in that. They can be the worst gold diggers out there. Love me for who I am. If you feel a pulling towards me, let’s hit it off, but do not rush too deep, be on the watch, anything can happen. I may not be that good. Do not wait for your prince or your knight in shinning armour, your destiny may be to create one. You may create one for yourself or you may be creating one for others. Haha. Be safe

Is He True?

Ever wondered if your man is true to you or not? Yes, you have. I know that. Many ladies have that question in the back of their minds: is he true to me?
If he cares about you, he should tell you so. Watch out for the little things he does to you. Most men may not be down to the romantic type. They may not openly let their feelings known to you. Don't blame them, they are that shy.
If he has the courage to always tell you that he loves you, he is a prince. But wait, is he trying to cover up something? Most men go sweet when they have gone wrong. But do not judge on this. You may be wrong and end up losing it all.
Do not blame me.
Do not test a man's love for you. With persistence, he may fail the test. This does not mean that he cares less about you. If he can't talk about it, he may be embarrassed. But don't just test him.
Love is all about trust. If you do not trust him, why are you even in the relationship? Trust your man. Do not taste him.
Is he true? Ask him. He won't bite.