What Women Want

Ever asked yourself what women really want. Most guys are clueless on this but don’t you worry Cupid is here to help so listen or rather read carefully. What women want.

Women want respect. Respect for who they are, where from and where headed. Respect their feelings. Recognize her moods and compliment her.

Women want a strong man who can overcome his negative thoughts and knows how to treat a lady. You should not be pushy or rather a pushover. You can check my post on impressing your lady here: http://cupidjomo.blogspot.com/2012/03/how-to-impress-your-lady.html

They need a guy who is open and honest about his feelings. Simply the truth. Gain the courage and confront her and tell her how she makes you feel. Most ladies despise men who do not have the guts to be honest with them.

Women need communication. Tell her what is on your mind. Men tend to think that telling women the truth will hurt them, thus they don’t talk it out. They’ll get hurt but it’s much better they know it early. Be a man. Why wait to use it against her in a fight? You are a gentleman. Tell her her faults and how best she can change them. Communicate.

Watch out you don’t spoil your chances. Do not go overboard with the honesty issue. Do not touch a lady’s behind in a pub when trying to get her to go home with you. Watch your ways. Don’t rush in direct to the point, for instance, do not tell a lady you are deeply attracted to her and you want to get down with her right there. Ever played with a donkey’s privates. Ha-ha, that’s a kick to your chest and you are done for. A simple smile, eye contact and just starting a conversation will tell her that you are interested.

Ladies want a man who is into grooming. What’s the essence of having a diva ready for the runway by your side and you look like you slept in a sewer. Do not give up grooming just because you have a girlfriend. It aint over yet. And if you looking for one, groom yourself and look good.

Women need you to be passionate about things in life, from your job to the bedroom and show that you are.

Be able to carry a decent conversation with her friends and family.

Have a good sense of humor. Be able to take a joke. If you do not know how, learn them from guys you trust.

Those are just a simple part of it. You can do that, can’t you? Try. See ya later right here.

How To Impress Your Lady

Want to impress your lady. Go simple on these and something great will work out. This is how you treat them right.

Listen to her. Listen until she has nothing more to say and when she’s done, do not speak. Just listen. It is hard, I know, but if you want the relationship to go on well, just listen. A time will come when you’ll want to scream out a solution to a problem but don’t, just listen. It shows you care.

Hug her like always. Keep the fire of your love burning with a simple hug now and then. When you meet. When you part. When talking. Hug her as much as you can.

Always be truthful or rather do not lie. A woman can forgive anything, but she won’t accept disrespect. If you stare at another woman and she catches you, let it out. You did it. Don’t start with the I liked the board behind her. Do not lie. You drank your salary out, say it. You bought your best friend some drinks and forgot your anniversary, say it as it is.

Be stable and have a sense of order. A woman needs to see balance. If you say something, be sure you live up to it. “I’ll be in for dinner at seven.” Be there at seven. If you are going to be late, what’s it going to hurt by calling? Call. Do not control, just support. Do not disempower the one you love. In love dependability is synonymous with trust. So share your problems and solutions.

Did you try to avoid this? Naaaa. Love her. Women need love. Show them love. Give them the whole of it. Do not hold some back. They need it all. Embrace it and show it always. It does not matter the hour or situation. You’ll have nothing to fear from love.

Fred Cuellar says women want to be happy like we men. Learn their language and all will be well. Listen when you’d rather speak, hug instead of just walking away, tell the truth till it hurts, be a man she can depend on and love her like you love yourself.

Unlock Your Potential

Most people tend to get satisfied when they accomplish their goal in life. Question is, is that all that you can do? We all have great potential that lies deep in us waiting to be unlocked. There's a lot of talent in us that we should learn to let out. Do not let that talent go down with you. Why should you be just contented with what you have achieved? You can do much more. That is not the end of your potential. You may have done something great in your life but you do not have to stop there. Strive for more. When a vehicle is made, a speedometer is placed in it. When driving the vehicle, rarely does one floor the accelerator pedal. People try to limit how fast the vehicle goes. Try to ask yourself how fast the vehicle can move. If you keep pressing that pedal, the vehicle will keep increasing the speed. Not many people are willing to drive their cars at a super fast speed. The same applies to themselves. Not many people are willing to unlock their potential. You can do greater than you are right now only if you stop limiting yourself to the level you've already achieved. I was able to record my first song. That was my big dream. To just record a song and I'd be happy. I am happy. But that is not the end. I'm writing more songs and am planning to make it big. Watch this space. I believe in me. Believe in you, yourself. It doesn't matter what people think of you. It's what you think of yourself that matters first, then others opinions. If you do not trust yourself, how do you expect others to trust you. You are worth much more. Go for a greater you. Unlock your potential.

Is it love? It is love

Ever asked yourself this question, 'Is it love?' Many have, but here are a few things you need to try and check out. Try and ask yourself this simple questions. Maybe or maybe not this may work. Just check yourself. Is it a feeling never felt before? Is it a yearning never had before? Is it a thirst that you can't quench? Is it a hunger can't be satisfied? Is it a pain never felt before? Is it a dream never dreamt before? Is it a cry that you can't stop? Is it a laughter that is so sweet? You try too much but you can't sleep Always on your mind can't fade away It's a feeling in you that is so sweet Super super super fantasy A fire that's burning from within A fear that you just can't explain You get that feeling like a fairytale A wish that is coming true If it's so, it's a melody Some kind of wind that calms you A voice from within calling out your name Yes it's love Ask yourself, "Is it love?" "Is it love?" "Is it love?" Yes, IT IS LOVE.